When someone tells you who they are, believe them. As empathic beings, we are all sensitive to the energetic offering of the people we encounter. It’s how we’re wired. So, it would make sense to pay attention not only to the words people use and the actions they present but also to the vibrational frequency of the energy each projects. On average, most people’s words, actions, and energetic offerings do not match. This contradiction can be confusing, leaving us with an unsettling feeling about someone who sounds great in words or whose actions are attractive, when the more reliable broadcast of who they are is their energetic offering. In most cases, they’re not even aware they have an energetic offering, making this an even more authentic and accurate informant of their character. If the vibe is “off-putting,” we can take it as a red flag of caution. Notice how I said caution, not fear. We want to be accountable for our listening (energy read) of someone—and not project our own energetic offering onto the other person, thus getting a reading of our own vibe being mirrored back to us. Fear can be a projection-reflection. Caution is being conscious about the what-is of any situation.
